I'm getting mixed signals? Why is she messing with me?

There have been things I have been watching, to see if she likes me and this is what i have noticed so far. A few weeks ago we were standing in the lunch line and she was in front of me. I was looking the other way. When i turned back around i noticed that she immediately turned her head back the other way. Then today in 7th hour we had to get into groups of 4 people and my teacher assigned them. She was in my group. We had to play jeopardy to get ready for our test that we are having on thursday. Someone in my group was looking for a chair and then she said, "hey why don’t you go sit on Mark(not my real name). And she sorta whispered my name and said it quietly and then got all quiet. So idk if that means anything. I also noticed that when she was talking in the group, she would never look at me directly in the eyes, and if she did she would quickly turn away. But i am also a shy guy so I do the exact same thing. She has also dated a couple other guys too. Last week in 7th hour she got up from her table to go get something. When she started walking back she walked by me and she walked by me really really slowly. Then 5 seconds later she gets back up to go get something else and then walks really slowly around me again. Then another 10 seconds later she gets back up AGAIN and goes to sharpen her pencil. But this time when she walked back she walked really slowly but then she stopped like right at my table to look at the overhead projector to see what was on the screen(which she had already looked at earlier). And she was standing right there for like 6 seconds and then walked back to her seat. So i’m thinking she wants me to talk to her or start a conversation with her but she is to scared? I don’t know. But today all day long she didn’t say one word to me, didn’t flirt with me, and she didn’t even really look at me either. It was like I didn’t even exist. That got me all depressed because I had thought that she had liked me? So what happened here? Can someone help me? Thanks you for reading this :)

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The cats pajamas

I think she likes you (:

Cynthia

Well she repeatedly showed you she had an interest in you,and you did nothing. How many hoops is she supposed to jump through to get you to respond past staring back? or should I say how many times does she have to walk passed you to get a response? Ball is in your court get off the fence so to speak and show the girl an equal response before you loose out.

Tandy

We tend to read into situations based on what we desire. You could be projecting all of these feelings on her simply because you like her. Or, she could simply be reacting to the fact that it’s clear to her that you like her. However I don’t see any solid signs of affection here.

Jess Bunny

Hmm, i understand you’re shy but honestly you gotta just talk to her! Tell her how you feel or maybe just start talking to her more until you feel more comfortable doing that cuz it seems like she is shy too and doesn’t know how to talk to you either. Fear is temporary, regret is a lifetime dude so just go for it!
Good luck! :)

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